Is He in Love With Someone Else? The PAINFUL Truth About LOVE, Loss and Spiritual Soul Mates

Q: What are the signs that a man is in love with another woman? Can you tell from his energy, or aura if he's NOT into you? What signs should I look for that our relationship may be over... and is there anything I can do to stop him from leaving?

A: One of the most common questions we get is from women who fear that their man is not only NO longer into them... but instead, has fallen for somebody else instead! Is this something that troubles you, or keeps you up at night? Do you worry that the man you thought was perfect, or your soulmate and true spiritual partner is actually feeling the same way about another woman?

The good news is, if any of this sounds familiar... you are NOT alone. As a matter of fact, one of the most common love, romance and relationship questions we get is about what to do when that loving feeling subsides, or even goes away completely.

The truth is, you ALWAYS know in your gut what is going on when it is. There are always signs when love ebbs away... and they are often the exact things you overlook for days, weeks or even months in advance... and chalk them up to the challenges that every relationship faces.

What are some of the common ones?

Lack of emotional intimacy, lack of connection, a feeling of "space" between you and LESS shared passion, purpose and partnership in a shared sense of destiny.

More subtle your relationship is on the rocks?

The best sign that a man has lost that loving feeling is what your own gut, or inner sense of intuitive wisdom tells you. Every woman has a romantic radar that is RARELY wrong. We often lie to ourselves... and deceiver ourselves with things we want to believe are true, but where it counts, (and matters most) we know the truth.

The key is, to look at romance and relationships as an adventure. Every love lost hurts... but it's part of your own unique journey, and the lessons you are here to live and learn. Sometimes, when I reflect on my own journey, I'm MOST thankful for the things that were the MOST hurtful, and hardest to learn, simply because I grew from them the most, and they were the most instrumental in helping me get where I am today!

So be grateful of each and every relationship. They are all in your life for a reason. And if the man you are with NOW is destined to be "the ONE" that lasts a lifetime... fight for him and your relationship. If not? Heal from the hurt... and allow yourself to understand that it's all part of the grand plan, and believe it or not... it ALL happens for the best.

The Best 20 Bible Verses About Love

As a human, we are guaranteed to do ONE thing during our lives no matter what: we will love. Love is a timeless emotion that can be exciting, deep, passionate and even unwaveringly loyal. But there are also bad things about love: it can cause wars, pain, suffering turmoil.

That's why, as Christians, we should learn about God's eternal Love. If we do, then we can do our best to TRULY love people during our lives. Our love can be selfless, instead of selfish. The best place to learn about God's Love for us is the Bible.

In the Bible, we see that God loved us so much that He gave up his only Son for our sins and us. If it weren't for this eternal, unconditional act of love, we wouldn't be saved. Praise God and read the Bible verses below to get a better, more fuller understanding of love!

# 20 - Psalms 42:11

Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God.

The most important message contained in this verse is this: we should not be in despair. Psalms 42:11 tells us that we have no reason to be in despair or cast down. We, people who love and worship God, are saved. We praise Him because He loves us and he gave up His only Son for us. We should rejoice in His love!

Therefore there is no reason for us to be sad! Any time you experience sadness or depression in your life, all you need to do is remind of yourself of God's undying love for you.

# 19 - Proverbs 5:19

Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

When reading this verse in Proverbs, you must take a step back to truly understand the big picture. It teaches us about being satisfied with our chosen partner in life. We should be satisfied with by the love of this person, as an infant is kept satisfied by its mother's milk. If the wife loves the husband and the husband the wife, then it is a recipe for happiness.

So remember, when you choose your partner, you should be satisfied both mentally and physically. This should be a person that you respect loves you back. If it is, then you will always be happy in his or her love.

# 18 - Proverbs 10:12

Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.

Sin, strife and negativity are borne out of hatred - this is always the case! But, as this verse in Proverbs tell us, LOVE "covers" of these sins. Love, goodness and happiness will always conquer hatred, evil and sin. That is why every one of us should fill our lives with as much goodness as we can.

Love will heal us, so we should look to God's love whenever we are in need of healing, support and guidance.

# 17 - Proverbs 13:24

He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

If you love your children, you should always endeavor to teach them, even if this means punishing them from time to time. You would be doing them a disservice if you "spared the rod" and didn't punish them when they did wrong. If you love your family - teach them what is right and good in whatever way you can.

As a parent, it can be hard to scold a child that you love so very much (more than yourself, even). But you must be strong! Teach the child what is good and what is bad - even if sometimes that requires chastisement. They will be better for it.

# 16 - Proverbs 17:17

A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

This verse from Proverbs is a little confusing - both a friend and a brother should know love. However, it is a friend's nature to show love at all times. A brother's love is different from a friend's, however. Even though he should love at all times, he should always strive to fight for and protect his brother, even though he may face adversity while doing so.

Therefore, a brother's love is MORE powerful... even though he might have to endure strife and hardships to protect his kin.

# 15 - Song of Solomon 1:2

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.

The Song of Solomon is full of colorful, passionate language about love.This verse is a simple celebration of love at its most basic expression - the kiss! The kiss can unite lovers, families and friends. It is universally understood as an expression of love. Love between two people can be more exquisite and enjoyable than all other earthly pleasures!

# 14 - Song of Solomon 4:10

How fair is thy love, my sister, my spouse! how much better is thy love than wine! and the smell of thine ointments than all spices!

This is yet another verse in the Book of Solomon that celebrates the simple beauty and joy of love. Although there are many different kinds of love, they all share a similar core that brings us joy. How lucky are those who are able to love God, family and friends!

Love is compared to many pleasing things throughout history: a wine, a flower, a sound or a smell. And even though we can get wrapped up in the poetry of love, we must never forget what a serious, passionate emotion it can be.