How Can I Make Him Believe I Love Him?

Does your man doubt your love for him? Have you told him that you love him but for some reason he doesn't seem to believe you? Then you may need some tactics to make him believe that you love him. What can you do to make him believe that you love him?

1. Communicate your message effectively! Communication so that he comes to understand (and believe) the truth that you feel is complicated as it depends on the words that you use (7%), the tone of your voice when you say the words (38%) and your facial and body expression (55%) when you are talking. Your words, your tone and your body should all say the same thing (that you love him) otherwise he will not believe you.

The words you use. To make him believe that you love him then you must use the words that you want him to hear. Use simple, clear and direct words when you tell him that you love him.

The tone that you use.To make him believe your words of love then your tone must be soft, loving and even. Your tone must support your words of love so that he can believe you. If you use a harsh tone as you tell him that you love him then he not believe you.

Your body language as you speak. Your facial expression and body language must support your words and your tone. You must look him straight in the face as you speak, with your body turned towards him... and in a relaxed and happy posture. If your body posture is uptight and your facial expression is sorrowful... will he be able to believe your words of love.

2. Understand what he actually hears. You now need to pay attention to him and his fears... and his upbringing. Remember that what he hears will be distorted by his life experiences, what he is going through right now, how past relationships have affected him etc. If his past or how he was brought up makes him doubt the love words that all women speak then it will be an uphill getting him to believe that you love him. In such a case patience may be your best bet... or even professional help.

Using these 2 key tools do you now understand why he doesn't believe that you love him? Do you now understand what you must do to get him to believe that you love him? Then get to work and make him believe in your love for him!