Telling Your Ex Girlfriend You Love Her - Is It a Good Idea?

Telling your ex girlfriend that you love her is one of those things that sounds like it would be easy to do when you think about it in your mind, but when the time comes where you actually are going to declare that this is the way that you feel - it can get really hard really quickly. You might be having second thoughts about telling her that you still love her and you may not be sure if it is a good idea or not. So, is it a good thing to tell your ex that you still love her?

Part of your confusion probably stems from the fact that you are taught that it is always good to be totally open and honest when you are in a relationship. Here is the thing with that, though - you aren't in a relationship with her anymore. At least, not the romantic kind. So, those rules don't apply anymore. My suggestion is that you hold off telling your ex that you still love her, unless of course, you don't mind getting your heart broken when she gives you that look that tells you that she did not want to hear that.

Love Is Fine When The Time Is Right -

One of the "secrets" about telling a woman that you love her is that it really only should be done when the time is right. When the timing is not right, you aren't going to see the same effect. What you have to do if you want her to feel the same way about you is take her to that point where she feels that way about you again, then you can tell her the way that you feel. If you declare your love for her before you reach that point - don't expect her to tell you that she feels the same way.

How Do You Make Her Love You Again?

Now that you know that you are going to have to make her love you again, it's only natural that you are going to want to know how you can do that. That's the tricky part. It always seems to work best if you approach your ex girlfriend from the vantage point of seeing her as a new woman in your life. Don't bring up reminders of the past, instead make her forsee a future that is fun and full of excitement if she were to start dating you again. Don't be a bummer and make her feel guilty about the fact that you miss her or feel heartbroken. Instead, make her feel like she starting off on a new foot with you and that you are not going to drudge up the past issues that got in the way. Most importantly, you need to work on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction towards you as well.